BeYOUtiful...

Why is it just because you are different people stare, they talk about you behind your back, whisper and you can feel their awkward and annoying energy. I have always been different from a young age. With different I mean I haven't been dressing like everyone else around me ( even though I don't think I'm that outrageous haha ). It has been a hard journey and even harder when I was younger. You know how kids are... School was pretty difficult but dont get me wrong a lot of the people I had around me did love what I was doing but you need to constantly be stronger then them to stick out. I'm from Sweden aswell where everyone ( at least back in the day) pretty much looks the same.

I manage to get through it but then when I got to Secondary school it was even harder which surprised me. At that point people are not kids anymore right. I wouldn't say I was bullied but people always comment on things, ALL THE FUCKING TIME! And to be fair, a lot of the jokes were pretty funny. But lets be honest here, who want to hear shit about everything you wearing day after day like a broken record?! I came to a point were I was going to change school but I never went for it in the end... As a young girl my confidence were pretty low so being different was a struggle, BUT it was ME! Why am I going to exist in this world as someone I'm not?! And this is something I constantly have to remind myself of. I should be able to express myself how I want without people making a big deal out of it right?

I am lot older now and have much more confidence in myself to actually not care. But then saying that, I do care in some ways. We all have our days right and todays society is very shallow and so is the industry I'm in. So to sum it up, I basically dont give a F**K but at the same time I do?! 

I realised after all these years people still looking, they still talk and most probably talk behind your back what type of weird trainers I had on that event or my hair looked crazy. They did it back then, they doing it now so why change for someone?! There will always be people hating on you so you might aswell do what you doing and ignore them! There is no other way... 

I still get it even today where people comment on things, always have someone comparing me to like people or celebs; " Omg, you look like ...." And usually they get it completely wrong from wherever I got my inspiration from. But today I can suck it in, realise I'm not like everyone else and appreciate my uniqueness and so should you. We are all unique and different in our own ways even if it's looks or more spiritual, is just about you finding it within yourself. 

I wanted to share my story because I know it is a lot of young people probably going through the same thing and trust me is not easy to be strong and keep it up all the time. But you just have to, stand up for yourself cause at the end of the day thats what life is in most situations. Be strong and stand up for what you believe in, YOU!

So next time when you comment on whats someone is wearing in a pisstaking kind of way, do it with kindness or not at all....

Be beautiful

Be different

Be special

Be honest

Be humble

Be confident

BE YOU...!

Video & Makeup: Ala Hojat

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RIP QUINCEY

As probably a few of you know, Quincey Williams sadly passed away a couple of months ago. I was in shock, I was in tears and I was absolutely devistated...

Me and Q go way back even though we never really kept in contact like that. We were both in the creative industry and could relate to our work in a lot of ways. I got to know Q from him poppin into Size? when I use to work there and always thought he was a all in all a nice and genuine dude. 

I always looked up to Q in the way he actually created what he wanted, followed his dreams without doubts and actually did s**t and didnt just talk s**t like a lot of people do and especially in London! As a creative I am pretty tired of always hear people say "yeah I know this and this person" and "I can hook you up with..." and they never go through with it?! It's like they trying to be someone they not to get "accepted". I learnt my lesson and now a days I believe things when I see it. But Q kept it so real, different and always supportive which I find very inspiring and refreshing now a days cause they are hard to come across. He was a nice, caring and 100% real human being and that breed is pretty much non existent these days.

Things like this is a wakeup call, makes you reflect even more about your own life, your career and most of all whats important in life. Make sure you get them prioritise right cause even how much of a cliché it is, life is too short and it can quickly just change!

I wanna thank you Q for all the support and inspiring things you did without even knowing... I wish I could of share more moments with you but also glad for the moments we had when you were here. You giving me the inspiration to continue my dreams and keep pushing and for that I will always be grateful.

Big up to the Stooki Crew for being strong, keep smiling and keep it going!

Daniel Spencer wrote this poem for Q and also made this song to make it special, I loved it so much I had to share it.... Thank you.

 

Quincey Williams - R I P 

Back in 2013 at the Redbull Party at Notting Hill Carnival, Q loved to get turnt uuup and daaance! Such a good day, I think of it and smile. Them angels better take good care of you Q or otherwise I kick their ass! I see you up there homie <3

FIERCE FRINGE

So the last time I cut my hair was a year ago, uhm yes A YEAR! I know I'm bad like that. I love to switch it up ALL THE TIME with either hats, different colours or extensions but when it comes to cutting it I wait until it feels like svinto! Ha!

I do a lot of 50s pinups styles (see my "Side Pinup Roll Tutorial" HERE) and a few years back I fell inlove with Beyonce's hairstyle she's got in "Videophone". This is a very pinup type of vibe but also very edgy.

Sooo I thought about it for a few days and decided I'm going to have one of them "YOLO" moments haha I manage to cut it myself and I actually love my new fierce fringe. Ask me again in a week though, cause I know how bored I get! 

Why?How?!

A fringe is pretty good to enhance and sort of frame your face even more and especially with a short fringe like this. If you not sure buy a clip in fringe to try out first so you can see if it suits you or not and from there make a decision cause growing out a fringe is a pain!!

Holla!

Let me know what you think of my new hairstyle and I want to see your fringes, you have anything spectacular to share? Maybe you failed completely?! 

Tweet me @JFStylissimo and show me!

Holla fo a dolla :)

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COLOURS

I do love my all blacks but also like to switch it up with colours here and there just to brighten up the grey world we live in...

Here I decided to change my hair ( that I usually do on a everyday basis) with DIY dipdyed extensions. My favourite buy is this jacket from Beyond Retro , also attached a red furcollar with it to make it more spectacular! I love stonewashed denim cause it gives that casual old school vibe but you can still dress it up cool. These Colorado Boots from Cat Footwear is prob one of the best winterboots I owned, comfy AND stylish!

Stay colourful!

JACKET & JEANS: Beyond Retro

BOOTS: Caterpillar

DIY EXTENSIONS: Paks Cosmetics

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JF YOUTUBE TUTORIALS

THE NEW CHIEFTAINS

When Agenda approach me being a part of The New Chieftains I was so honoured since I am a big fan of his photography, skills and his mind. I met Agenda a few years back when I first moved to London when he approach me to model for him. I did a few shoots and the result was always spot on ( See images below ). What I didn't like ( at the time ) is that he always said to me while shooting: "No Jazzy, Im just testing the settings right now..." So I obviously I didn't pose as I normally do and he managed to catch ( without me knowing ) me just being natural. Now, thats is exactly what I do like about his photography. He don't just capture an amazing picture, there is life to his photography and he captures peoples souls. 

 Agenda X JFStylissimo previous shoots 

Meaning of A New Chieftain:

"The New Chieftains are a unique tribe of talent who embody tenacity and resilience. They are non-conformists whose instinct to succeed is driven by passion, instinct, endeavour and challenge. These qualities, alongside the way in which they approach life and work, amplify their unconventionality. They can be found in many different arenas including education, design, philanthropy, food and music. The New Chieftains do not cut corners in an effort to succeed."

So we did the shoot in my room, where all the magic happens :) This is where I style myself, create new things and develop ideas and constantly working so I thought it was the perfect spot for us to shoot. In the picture below you can see a few of my key things in my life when it comes to me and my creative work: My macbook, my sewing machine, my mannequin and off course my life moodboard. This represent me and Im so glad he captured everything in one pic.

I had a chat with Agendas sister Daphne on the phone and we ended up chatting for ages. She sums me up in beautiful words and I am thankful and also happy to be able to share this with you guys!

JASMINE FURELID - STYLISH STYLISSIMO

"Brave little warrior she is not. She does not care who may stop and stare, as the creativity that comes from her is worth it. She shows many faces; who will she be today?

Daring to push boundaries laid before her, 'a trier' not design to quit Jasmine comes boundlessly with a cool energy dunked in the softness of her heart.

The Stylish Stylissimo knows her subjects reading them telepathically, getting into their psyche crowning them in their full glory. But where is her crown? Though her road has been tough she has walked thrugh it in her own tenacious way looking only towards her inner self as the ultimate guiding light.

Always continue to be you Jasmine. "

 

You can now pop in to Nude Espresso, 26 Hanbury Street London to see the massive canvas of my face and the rest of The New Chieftains hanging on the wall. I did get pretty shocked first time I went in since I didnt realise the canvas was that big! It will be there for another 6 weeks so make sure you grab a coffe and enjoy the view of The New Chieftains!

Also watch out for behind the scenes shots COMING SOON!

Follow The New Chieftains here:

WEB: http://newchieftains.visualmarvelry.com/

TWITTER: @NEWCHIEFTAINS 

Follow Agenda here:

WEB: http://visualmarvelry.com/

TWITTER: @VISUALMARVELRY

Others:

@NudeEspresso

@BackyardDenim

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JFSTYLISSIMO x MADE IN SHOREDITCH

I was approached by my journalist friend Anna Maria Brostrom a little while back to do some features on Made In Shoreditch Magazine with my fashion tips. I was more then happy to get involved in this and my first feature was "5 must haves in your wardrobe" according to me. 

Anna Maria came to my house and I showed her my room where all my creative things, sewing and DIY business happens. We wanted a shot where my love for clothes would be shown, above you can see one part of my wardrobe, yeah you heard; ONE PART! I also have a rail and loads of suitcases in my basement.... Im always that woman that says: " I don't have any clothes!" But really, I have quite a lot I just want new ones all the time ( greedy much?! ) haha! There is a word for that actually...hmmm... Ah yes, SHOPOHOLIC! 

Below you can see what 5 things I think Is a good investment for your wardrobe. Enjoy!

Stay tuned for more fashion tips on Made In Shoreditch by yours truly...

The Hat, get the rimmed hat from H&M. 

-A hat is always stylish and warm as well. I think that a hat really sets the touch to an outfit. It is definitely a thing you should have in your wardrobe. Some may not be comfortable wearing a hat but it’s a good way to cover a bad hair day.

The Leather Jacket, get this one is from H&M.

-A leather jacket is a must have, a good investment and a basic piece in your wardrobe. I prefer edgy biker jackets. A standard black leather jacket works with everything and it looks really clean.

The Furcollar, get this one on Ebay

-It’s all about the fur baby! This is a vintage fur collar that I matched with a light weight jacket to make it warmer. It puts a touch of luxury to your outfit and it is removable, so I’m wearing it to almost all of my jackets.

The Glasses, buy these on Ebay

-Sunglasses is something that everyone should invest in. I have a thing for sunglasses/glasses and these red 70’s ones are a good break-up to my usual urban look. I like them big and massive, a statement. 

The Boots, shop these on Beyond Retro

 -These boots are also vintage. I rarely wear high heel shoes and since I wear a lot of street wear, I like to break it off with this chunky heel type of look. They are comfortable but I still feel more dressed up than with just trainers.

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SMILE THROUGH THE BREAKDOWN

Today I woke up with a smile on my face for no particular reason. The last couple of months been very hard and I have been feeling the London struggle even more then usual. After my adventure in The Philippines I came back to reality again, without a job and I wasn't even sure if I was able to pay my rent. But my mindset was really good and the first couple of weeks I was ok. I applied for probably 5 - 10 jobs a day but when that didn't end up in results I got a bit worried. For me it was hard to understand since I have more then 14 years experience in retail and I wondered what am I doing wrong?!

After a month I manage to get a job in a little vintage shop in East which was a relief. I still didn't know how I was going to be able to pay a double rent and it freaked me out!  I can go into a lot of details with my whole life situation but I wont bore you... Basically what I realise the last month is that in every situation you are in, good or bad you always need to use your mind to create what you want and what you need in your life. I have been really down and stressed for various reasons but everyday I am trying to make something out of that and make it into a life experience. And I will tell you, IT WORKS! It is all about your mindset and how you approach situations and life. I have put up a front of being happy and full of jokes and laughter cause that is what you have to do, is like a front. So sometimes people don't know whats going on behind this front but for me, making my best to cover it will bring you joy and you might even make other people happy and fulfil their day cause now a days kindness and manners are very rare. It is also crazy how in todays society you are actually surprised if someone says something nice, being polite or just doing a nice gesture. And this is what scares me...

The last week been really good even though I worked 6 days in a row and dealing with other things at the same time. But I am also really blessed and I had a really positive mind even though I haven't  been that happy. The people or shall I call them strangers that I bumped into or talked to the last month have been amazing human beings that shared their story and life experience and I think because of my mindset right now I attracted it to myself. I don't think I ever talked to these many strangers and appreciate every little second of it. Either its been stories I can relate to or some stories that I don't get or don't agree with it but I can appreciate it. You gave me so much life and triggered a really curious part of myself that I don't normally have. I am so grateful for these amazing human beings even if they don't know it...

When I was in this struggle I knew that in the end the dots will connect. But when you are in it, it is very hard to see. I just knew deep down that I will look back on this and be like "AHAAAAA" I get it now! I am a strong believer that 'Everything happens for a reason' like I didn't get a certain job because I was ment to be doing this or that or I wouldn't bump in to so and so if it wasn't for that specific situation. This is what they call faith or destiny right?! I also call it timing. Probably 80-90% in life is timing, which sometimes sucks but you just have to learn to live with it. I am also a big music lover and lately I started to explore it even more and found some new amazing artists that been keeping me happy in tricky situation when you are down. And that my friends, helped me a lot!

I guess what I am trying to say is, appreciate what you are actually surrounded by with it be people, situations, events and other things that life throws at you. Even if it is bad things or messy situations, there is always something positive around you and to smile about but is just up to you and your soul to see it. And don't let your mind play tricks on you cause your thoughts creates what you want in life. I want to thank all the amazing strangers for letting me hear their personal stories and giving me their positive energy, I am beyond grateful.

And on that note I am now going to chill and relax since I have another 6 days of work this week, but bare in mind I still have that smile on my face that I woke up to!

Thank you!

"Fantasy is what people want but reality is what they need, and I just retired from the fantasy..."

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JF x NOTTING HILL CARNIVAL

So it was that time again, Notting Hill Carnival 2014. Thank you everybody for bringing laughter, dance moves and joy!

Carnival its been a pleasure, until next year....

Peace, love & light!

Image by: Javan Trotman

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JFSTYLISSIMO x ILLUSTRATIONJUNKIE

These lovely illustrations was made by: http://mtqillustrator.tumblr.com

THANK YOU!